A REFORMATION
Sept. 1st.--No Mr. Huntingdon yet. Perhaps he will stay among his friends till Christmas; and then, next spring, he will be off again. If he continue this plan, I shall be able to stay at Grassdale well enough--that is, I shall be able to stay, and that is enough; even an occasional bevy of friends at the shooting season, may be borne if Arthur get so firmly attached to me--so well established in good sense and principles, before they come, that I shall be able, by reason and affection, to keep him pure from their contaminations. Vain hope, I fear! but still, till such a time of trial comes, I will forbear to think of my quiet asylum in the beloved old Hall.
Mr. and Mrs. Hattersley have been staying at the Grove a fortnight; and as Mr. Hargrave is still absent, and the weather was remarkably fine, I never passed a day without seeing my two friends, Milicent and Esther, either there or here. On one occasion, when Mr. Hattersley had driven them over to Grassdale in the phaeton, with little Helen and Ralph, and we were all enjoying ourselves in the garden--I had a few minutes' conversation with that gentleman, while the ladies were amusing themselves with the children.
`Do you want to hear anything of your husband, Mrs. Huntingdon?' said he.
`No, unless you can tell me when to expect him home.'
`I can't.--You don't want him, do you?' said he with a broad grin.
`No.'
`Well, I think you're better without him, sure enough--for my part, I'm downright weary of him. I told him I'd leave him if he didn't mend his manners--and he wouldn't; so I left him--you see I'm a better man than you think me;--and what's more, I have serious thoughts of washing my hands of him entirely, and the whole set of `em, and comporting myself from this day forward, with all decency and sobriety as a Christian and the father of a family should do.--What do you think of that?'
`It is a resolution you ought to have formed long ago. `Well, I'm not thirty yet: it isn't too late, is it?'
`No; it is never too late to reform, as long as you have the sense to desire it, and the strength to execute your purpose.'
`Well, to tell you the truth, I've thought of it often and often before, but he's such devilish good company is Huntingdon, after all--you can't imagine what a jovial good-fellow he is when he's not fairly drunk, only just primed or half-seas-over--we all have a bit of a liking for him at the bottom of our hearts, though we can't respect him.'
`But should you wish yourself to be like him?'
`No, I'd rather be like myself, bad as I am.'
`You can't continue as bad as you are without getting worse--and more brutalized every day--and therefore more like him.'
I could not help smiling at the' comical, half angry, half confounded look he put on at this rather unusual mode of address.
`Never mind my plain speaking,' said I; `it is from the best of motives. But tell me, should you wish your sons to be like Mr. Huntingdon--or even like yourself?'
`Hang it, no.'
`Should you wish your daughter to despise you--or, at least, to feel no vestige of respect for you, and no affection but what is mingled with the bitterest regret?'
`Oh, blast it, no! I couldn't stand that.'
`And finally, should you wish your wife to be ready to sink into the earth when she hears you mentioned; and to loathe the very sound of your voice, and shudder at your approach?'
`She never will; she likes me all the same, whatever I do.'
`Impossible, Mr. Hattersley! you mistake her quiet submission for affection.'
`Fire and fury--'
`Now don't burst into a tempest at that--I don't mean to say she does not love you--he does, I know, a great deal better than you deserve--but I am quite sure, that if you behave better, she will love you more, and if you behave worse, she will love you less and less till all is lost in fear, aversion, and bitterness of soul, if not in secret hatred and contempt.
But, dropping the subject of affection, should you wish to be the tyrant of her life--to take away all the sunshine from her existence, and make her thoroughly miserable?'
`Of course not; and I don't, and I'm not going to.'
`You have done more towards it than you suppose.'
`Pooh, pooh! she's not the susceptible, anxious, worriting creature you imagine: she's a little meek, peaceable, affectionate body; apt to be rather sulky at times, but quiet and cool in the main, and ready to take things as they come.'
`Think of what she was five years ago, when you married her, and what she is now.'
`I know--he was a little plump lassie then, with a pretty pink and white face: now, she's a poor little bit of a creature, fading and melting away like a snow-wreath'--but hang it!--By Jupiter, that's not my fault!'
`What is the cause of it then? Not years, for she's only five and twenty.
